Pursuit of Your Son’s Heart – Part 1

PART 1

What an amazing blessing and honor to be called a father!

You are now in charge and responsible to mold, teach and uplift a soon to be man into society!

THE RACE IS ON!

The race for the HEART OF YOUR SON…

The race to teach him how to be a man of integrity, good character, how to love and to
pursue personal excellence throughout life!

Every young man has the making of a knight yet our post modern culture and peer pressure of today
has something far different… Ready and willing to reshape their values and character in a heartbeat!

Fathers… We gotta take this race serious… We gotta fight back!

However and its sad to say: Fathers are losing the race and the battle!

* There are more fathers absent from the home than any other time in history.
* Boys are finding role models on T.V, street corners and playgrounds rather than Daddy at home
* 87% of all incarcerated men either had no father or hate their father
* 90% of all homeless youth and runaways are from fatherless homes
* 71% of all high school drop outs come from fatherless homes
* 65% of men at home spend less than 2 hours of quality time a week with their sons

Just think about these staggering percentages…
How many of us were actually raised by an active and loving Dad?

If you were raised by 2 full time active and loving parents… Consider yourself blessed!

Back in the 50’s and 60’s if your mom and dad were divorced it was considered weird
Nowadays if your mom and dad are still together it’s considered weird.

How the times have changed… Where did we lose sight?

I’m a brand spanking new father… My son just turned 2 years old and boy does he have something
new for me everyday… I still have milk on my mouth so to speak and have so much to learn.

But I do know what I missed growing up and what I wish I had in a father.

SIDE NOTE:
Mom you did an outstanding job!
I Love you for that…

And for all the single moms out there…

You are amazing and deserve a Gold medal and more
for all the dedication, love and sacrifice made in raising your son/s!

__________

AS A FATHER… one of my goals in life is to encourage men (You) to fight the good fight and stick
around through hard times… To push through the issues of life and hold the family together!

MEN… FATHERS…

We need to step up and stop stepping out!
We need to show love and compassion to our sons!
We need to spend quality time with our sons!
We need to lead by example!
Fathers love your wife and show affection in his presence
Give him hugs and kisses on a daily basis
Listen, sacrifice and forgive continually

Our sons were created to be adventurous, creative, super active, and fearless…

But without the proper guidance and supervision the attributes above have the potential to
lead him into destructive behavior and experience avoidable consequences.

If you have a son and are experiencing a hard time showing affection, spending quality time, and or
bonding with him I implore you to seek some assistance to turn the tables.

Take them away from the TV
Interrupt their Playstation or Xbox addiction
Do whatever it takes to show your son hes important to you
( Putting our sons in front of a TV or Game Box is not quality time – Its called lazy fathering )

Some Suggestions for Father / Son activities:

Join a men’s fellowship at your local church.
Get involved in a community sporting activity with your son
Plan a camping or weekend fishing trip w/ your son
Take a walk in the park
Plan a picnic at the beach

Point is… be creative – There is so much to do!

It just requires alot of sacrifice and commitment…

Perhaps the very thing never shown to us  and the very thing we need to work on
to become the fathers we wish we had growing up.

This blog is Part 1 of “Pursuit of your sons heart”

My goal was to show, expose and hopefully stir up emotions and action in a time
where fathers are almost extinct.

For those fathers that are around… And I mean actively around…
Great job… Your one of the few!

Stay the course and get plugged in so your commitment and courage stays in tact.

My upcoming blogs will hopefully fill in the gaps and assist those of us
that need help in raising our sons to be KNIGHTS!

Thanks for reading this article and God Bless

Angel L. Rivera

4 replies
  1. N_mullet
    N_mullet says:

    Angel, I haven’t seen you and Tulane or Isaiah (i apologize if I spelled that wrong) in a very long time and I miss you and everyone at ATTD, as much as I desperately miss the dancing, but I had to tell you how beautiful this is and what an amazing thing I think you’re doing. This was a beautiful article. My son is now four, and will be five in august, and while his father does see him twice a week, I often feel that I am still the only one raising him. I want you to know that this doesn’t just inspire father’s, it inspires mother’s as well. I know this was geared toward father’s and believe me, I know plenty of single and married father’s out there that are doing a fantastic job, but you are also inspiring me, a mother, to be an even better parent. Thank you. Keep up the good work and I will keep an eye out for future blogs.

    Miss you guys!

    Nicole

    • InspireToWin
      InspireToWin says:

      Hello Nicole,

      Thank you so much for your kind words and Im so happy you enjoyed my latest blog… I do my best to speak and write from experience as well as relevant situations that happen to myself and others through life. I will be sure to continue writing and pray that it effects others as it has you… Look forward to seeing you around the studio… Its been a while! Talk 2 u soon! Angel R.

  2. aavila
    aavila says:

    Very powerful message.. I have to congratulate you!! Millions of hugs to you and your mother. I forwarded this article to a few friends and I already have them asking who you are.:O) Good luck on all your endeveours.
    Sincerely,
    Angie Avila 

    • AngelRivera
      AngelRivera says:

      Hey Angie

      Thank you so much for taking the time to comment… I’m glad your enjoying the articles… Many
      more are coming soon… And thank you for forwarding this to your friends! My main goal is to get
      the word out and inspire as many people as I can in the process… When you get a chance please LIKE
      our fanpage… http://www.facebook.com/inspiretowin – Thanks again!

      Angel Rivera
      InspireToWin.com

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